Monday, October 26, 2009

Rapunzel and manu


The story of Rapunzel-(for all those who haven't read it)(see manus comments right at the bottom)

Grimm's Fairy Tale version - translated by Margaret Hunt - language modernized a bit by Leanne Guenther

Note: Rapunzel is an old nickname for a herb with leaves like lettuce and roots like a radish -- it is also called rampion.

There once lived a man and a woman who always wished for a child, but could not have one. These people had a little window at the back of their house from which a splendid garden could be seen. The garden was full of the most beautiful flowers and herbs. It was, however, surrounded by a high wall, and no one dared to go into it because it belonged to an witch, who had great power and was feared by all the world.

One day the woman was standing by the window and looking down into the garden, when she saw a bed which was planted with the most tasty rapunzel. It looked so fresh and green that she longed for it and had the greatest desire to eat some. This desire increased every day. The woman knew that she could not get any of it and grew more pale and miserable each day.

Her husband was worried about her and asked "What is wrong my dear?"

"Ah," she replied, "if I can't eat some of the rapunzel from the garden behind our house I think I shall die."

The man, who loved her, thought, "Sooner than let my lovely wife die, I will bring her some of the rapunzel myself, no matter what the cost."

In the twilight of the evening, he climbed over the wall into the garden of the witch, hastily grabbed a handful of rapunzel and took it to his wife. She at once made herself a salad and ate it happily. She, however, liked it so much -- so very much, that the next day she longed for it three times as much as before. If he was to have any rest, her husband must once more descend into the garden. In the gloom of evening, therefore, he set out again; but when he had climbed over the wall he was terribly afraid, for he saw the witch standing before him.

"How dare you," she said with angry look, "sneak into my garden and steal my rapunzel like a thief? You shall suffer for this!"

"Ah," the frightened husband answered, "please have mercy, I had to have the rapunzel. My wife saw it from the window and felt such a longing for it that she would have died if she had not got some to eat."

Then the witch allowed her anger to be softened, and said to him, "If this is true, I will allow you to take as much as you like, only I make one condition. You must give me the baby daughter your wife will bring into the world; she shall be well treated, and I will care for it like a mother." The man in his fear consented and when the baby was born the witch appeared at once, gave the child the name of Rapunzel and took the baby away with her.

Rapunzel grew into the most beautiful child beneath the sun. When she was twelve years old, the witch shut her into a tower, which lay in a forest. The tower had no stairs or doors, but only a little window at the very top. When the witch wanted to go in, she stood beneath the window and cried,

"Rapunzel, Rapunzel,
Let down your hair."

Rapunzel had magnificent long hair, fine as spun gold, and when she heard the voice of the witch she wound her braids round one of the hooks of the window, and then the hair fell down the side of the tower and the witch climbed up by it.

After a year or two, it came to pass that the Prince rode through the forest and went by the tower. He heard a song which was so lovely that he stood still and listened. This was Rapunzel who in her loneliness passed her time singing. The Prince wanted to climb up to her, and looked for the door of the tower, but none was to be found. He rode home, but the singing had so deeply touched his heart, that every day he went out into the forest and listened to it.

Once when he was standing behind a tree listening to Rapunzel's song, he saw the witch come and heard how she cried,

"Rapunzel, Rapunzel,
Let down your hair."

Then Rapunzel let down the braids of her hair, and the witch climbed up to her.

"If that is the ladder by which one mounts, I will for once try my fortune," thought the Prince and the next day when it began to grow dark, he went to the tower and cried,

"Rapunzel, Rapunzel,
Let down your hair."

Immediately the hair fell down and the Prince climbed up.

At first Rapunzel was terribly frightened when a man such as her eyes had never seen, came to her; but the Prince began to talk to her quite like a friend and told her that his heart had been so stirred by her singing that it had let him have no rest. Then Rapunzel lost her fear, and when he asked her if she would take him for her husband -- and she saw that he was kind and handsome, she said yes, and laid her hand in his.

She said, "I will willingly go away with you, but I do not know how to get down. Bring a bit of silk with you every time you come and I will weave a ladder with it. When that is ready I will climb down and we shall escape together." They agreed that until that time he should come to her every evening, for the old woman came by day.

The witch knew nothing of this, until once Rapunzel said in her distraction, "Oh my, you are so much heavier when you climb than the young Prince."

"Ah! you wicked child," cried the witch "What do I hear thee say! I thought I had separated you from all the world but you have deceived me."

In her anger she clutched Rapunzel's beautiful hair, seized a pair of scissors -- and snip, snap -- cut it all off. Rapunzel's lovely braids lay on the ground but the witch was not through. She was so angry that she took poor Rapunzel into a desert where she had to live in great grief and misery.

The witch rushed back to the tower and fastened the braids of hair which she had cut off, to the hook of the window, and when the Prince came and cried,

"Rapunzel, Rapunzel,
Let down your hair,"

she let the hair down. The Prince climbed to the window, but he did not find his dearest Rapunzel above, but the witch, who gazed at him with a wicked and venomous look.

"Aha!" she cried mockingly, "You've come for Rapunzel but the beautiful bird sits no longer singing in the nest; the cat has got it and will scratch out your eyes as well. Rapunzel is banished and you will never see her again!"

The Prince was beside himself and in his despair he fell down from the tower. He escaped with his life, but the thorns into which he fell pierced his eyes. Then he wandered quite blind about the forest, ate nothing but roots and berries and did nothing but weep over the loss of his dearest Rapunzel.

In this way, the Prince roamed in misery for some months and at length came to the desert where the witch had banished Rapunzel. He heard a voice singing and it seemed so familiar to him that he went towards it. When he approached, Rapunzel knew him and fell into his arms and wept.

Two of her tears fell on his eyes and the Prince could see again. He led her to his kingdom where he was joyfully received, and they lived for a long time afterwards, happy and contented.

The daily story routine sometimes drives me crazy as I run out of them pretty often. Do suggest some sites where I can find stories to quench the endless thirst.

And they lived happily ever after... my eyes were almost drooping as I was hoping manu would transcend into Rapunzels world but it seldom happens ...sigh!

manu- "Mama what if chiki will be a girl "

me-"what about it then?"

manu-" if someone comes to save her I won't like what happens after that"

me-"what will happen after that?"

manu-" what people do after they get married "

me-" what do people do after they get married?"

manu-"on the lips..."

I couldn't stop giggling. So the elder brotherly instincts were already in place. He had transcended into a different world...


Wednesday, September 16, 2009

The Pink Balloon

Srilankan festival ...food,dance music and magic show.Manu wanted to watch the magic show and Ajit and I were least interested in the same. We sat for a while and then decided to let him enjoy the show while we checked other stalls. BTW this can happen only in Japan ...
While we checked the stalls I spotted the balloon man. Manu had been asking for one ever since he saw another kid playing with it. I thought he'd be really surprised and happy if I take one to him.So I quickly rushed to get one as there were only three left.
Eagerly I went to Manu with my prize in hand. I wanted to see the gleam in his eyes.
Guess what ...he gave a surprised look and then said -"mama ...pink balloon "
Oops ! what a mistake...I just didn't realise that I had forgotten his preference. I was disappointed and a little angry as well. Can't he understand that I made such an effort to get the balloon in the first place...how rude:-(
Later as I chewed upon my thought I realised lots of times we impose things on our kids wanting them to accept everything we like without checking their preferences. Wake up I told myself he is growing...

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Parent Teacher Meeting

Just before school closed for summer vacations there was PTA. While the parents were waiting for their turns, the kids became unmanageable. They were running around, making as much noise as possible. Some parents were getting really irritated and some looked in disdain at the ones not being able to control their kids. I was on the receving end, the more I tried stopping Neil, the more he became unruly. Finally I let him be. Smaran's mom and I had just introduced ourselves when Smaran and Neil came running, not knowing we were observing them Smaran said- " stand straight-put your pants down" and then they both giggled.
That was a little too much to handle and Smarans mom said Neil has taught him that. I had never heard that before from Neil so I had to catch hold of him and ask if he really had said that. He confidently said no and now I was in a dilemma-if I don't trust him and scold him in front of everyone he'd lose faith in me and if I don't scold him now parents around would wonder what kind of a mom I was. I chose not to scold him and trust what he said. Back home I again asked him if he had really said that and he said no-I left it at that.
Parenting is definitely quite challenging. Lots of time we do things to look good in front of other people but I believe it is your kids trust that matters most.
With teachers the meetings went smooth- hyperactive, always ready to answer, talkative, full of imagination, grasps things fast...

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

an avid reader

Surprises me by the sheer amount of energy he has. Nah-not for homework but for everything else that keeps him from sleeping. He has been a quick reader -now 5 years 6 months old and already reading encyclopedias and all kinds of story books...that sure has come from papa and dadaji.

boys have more energy













This sunday was trek time and then medidation at hayama beach. It was a group of 25 ,with around 15 Japanese people. Great food play,music at the moutain top and then a round of yoga and meditation at the beach. Pretty interesting group, and the yasai dake (veggie food) even more interesting. As expected-salad,fruits,veggie onigiri, but all tasted different from the veggie food we eat out at Japanese restaraunts. Overall a great trip.
Highlights of the trip-naina and manu were having a great time together.Then came the time to help the elders carry stuff up the hill. Naina and manu decided to carry the djembe. Then manu started boasting boys have more energy."Well then carry it all by yourself said our smart little naina and our ego hurted manu ji carried it all the way" Good training naina-our buddhu ji is sure a girls man:-)

Some more pictures of the beautiful day-

mama devotion!!!

10 am saturday morning -the friday ritual of a late night movie keeps manu sleeping late into sat morning.
As I stepped out of the bathroom I was taken aback-my little one was sitting in front of the bathroom patiently waiting for me to finish my bath and come out to hug him. I was almost in tears, he knows I get irritated if he bangs the door, so he sat there without a sound...

Saturday, March 28, 2009

graduation day










"Mommy we have graduation day on the 28th"
The concept of kindergarten children graduating really amused me but the preparations made real sense to me. 
They were going to sing this song-Start spreading the news we are leaving today, we want to be a part of 1st grade,1st grade. We worked very hard, our teacher is proud, so open up the doors to 1st grade, 1st grade. If we can make it here we'll make it anywhere, so here we come 1st grade ,1st grade.
I feel this was a great way to prepare children for the next step they were going to take.
The day started with songs from the LKG and then UKG. The IISJ has half the school strength as kindergarteners and I really commend the work Ms Nirmal Jain has done in helping these little kids bloom. I am sure it is really difficult managing a school in this not so open community,language being one of the biggest hindrance. 
Manu will be going to grade 1 from the 2nd of april. Feel a bit sad for him for when he goes back to India he'll have to go back to UKG. Indian schools are very strict in terms of age :-( 
Anyways so today was fun. The little kids did a great job with the beautifull songs their teachers had helped them prepare. They looked really cute with their graduation caps :-)

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

scared of the dark

A recent development ...this bindaas boy was not scared of anyone,anything but I see the fear of dark . 
Nights he dosen't want to go to the toilet alone .The other day we had gone for a walk .There is a beautiful walk by the sea near our home .On our way back we lost our way .There were huge trollers and no one around .Manu got really psyched up.Don't know from where this has come...

Monday, March 9, 2009

some observations

Its interesting to see the dad-son relationship building . Manu loves to fight with ajit .He punches and gets his swords out for a ninja warrior fight . He thinks I am not good at it.
We have a chart with our names written on it and everytime we help someone we get a red star .
Well manu gets loads of them because he helps me whenever he drinks milk,changes clothes,takes a bath...the list continues,he's helping me ain't it:-) 
Daddy gets his red star on weekends when he washes dishes .
Mommy gets red stars when she cooks really nice stuff .
Manu is bothered about the number of stars daddy gets .He wants him to get more red stars so he keeps telling me see mommy, daddy woke up on time lets give him a red star:-) or daddy helped you clean...He really wants to help ajit :-) .He feels daddy will feel bad if he dosen't have equal number of stars.
I am sure he sees ajit as competition .When we go out for walks manu dosen't want us to talk ,he wants us talking to him .This has been there for a long time but I see him slowly accepting that it is ok for daddy to talk to me. 
The other day he told me to give a star to ajit and  myself because we love each other a lot...

why do we need to sleep?

question that has been bothering manu for quite some time .Only if we didn't have to sleep we'd be able to play so much more,read much more,spend so much more time with friends ,draw much more ,play piano ...i don't like sleeping

electronic man

Last weekend manu was chanting -daddys name is electronic man he loves to go to bic camera 
ajit-beware ,he's picked up that electronic shops are ur favourite time pass and all u love to buy is electronic items :-)
Something more -Manu goes to ajit when he is working -daddy do u have time for me? When will u talk to me? So ajit looks up from his laptop -yes tell me and he blabbers something which ajit has no clue of(because he definitely was not listening) .And he gets it again:-)see-u don't listen ...
It's fun to watch a five year old behave like a grown up...may be he's picking it from me :-) 



is daddy crazy?

Ajit has been coming really late for the past 2-3 days due to some release at office and manu dosen't get to see him in the morning as well .
Today morning he got up and asked me if daddy was asleep . All three of us usually head out together in the morning for office and school and I guess he was missing ajit .
manu-"mommy is daddy still asleep "
me-"yes"
manu-"is he crazy"
wo! ...where did he pick up this word from...
me-"why do you say that"
manu-"does he not have to go to office? why is he sleeping so late?"
I explained that daddy was working really hard and that he had to stay late in office so he's not able to get up early .
manu-hmmm he should get a red star for working hard but no stars for not getting up early:-)

Monday, February 23, 2009

r u feeling better?

Manu went straight to harsh's house form school ,friday evening so they were supposed to have dinner together.I hadn't seen him after I dropped him for school in the morning at 8:30 .
When I picked him at 9:00 pm I told him I had missed him. On reaching home he asked me to play catch catch. It was surprising as it was bed time and he loves to read or do puzzles before he sleeps. Anyways we played for five minutes and then he asked me if I was feeling better?
I realised later that this is the activity I usually do to cheer him up when he is in a bad mood.
How caring...

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

seat belts in the rocket

manu-i think this person has not put seat belts  ,please can u ask him to do so ...
harsh-ok i will 
manu-check...check...
harsh-ready to fly?
manu-yes 10,9,8,7...

This converstaion caught my attention  and I peeped in their room to see what they were playing.They were sitting on pillows flying a rocket ,with a map in hand that was suppossedly the seating arrangement,and the rocket had passengers who had to fasten seat belts:-)  

sanya is coming

sanya :-) a pretty little girl age 5 ,neils friend 
harsh -4 and a half ,neils friend 

Sanya was coming home to play with neil and harsh came home as well straight from school. I picked them up from the bus stop .Read the conevrsation between the two-
manu-sanya is coming home today 
harsh-who is sanya?
manu-she is my friend
harsh-is she 3 years old 
manu-no 5 years old .when she comes home be very carefull ,please do not touch her,she might get hurt
harsh-why will she get hurt ?
manu-her fingers are very soft :-)

my my ...i couldn't stop smiling ,hmmm getting his facts right-girls are delicate:-)

are they real ?

We had gone for Nikuledian circus-an amazing performance by russian trapeze artists ...
Seeing them fly manu asked if they were real? After the James Bond episode it was hard for him to beleive that they were real people . Their performance was just fabulous. I pointed out that there was a net below and even if they fall  they would not hurt themselves. 
I could see the awe in his face. 
I think it was a little difficult for him to distinguish between the tricks of Bond and the artists...

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

of death and beyond

I did the advanced course at the german ashram this New Years . While I was doing the course ajit and manu spent some quality time with guruji. Once guruji asked "manu where is papa" and manu said "i don't know" and then ajit got a good one from guruji ..."don't leave him alone:-)" 
Guruji loves kids ...manu and the other kids at the ashram were preparing a surprise for guruji. The enviornmet was blissfull.Everyone was glowing in love .
 Ever since then manu has been asking me if guruji liked him the best .I keep telling him that he loves everyone but somehow he has got the feeling that Guruji loves him and ajit the most. 
Yesterday all of a sudden he asked"does guruji have a manu"
I said yes he has you na ,he is always with you. 
"Does Gujruji have a mother"
"Yes  he had a mother but she died" manu was shocked to hear this answer ...
"Did he cry ? Did he feel very sad " 
"Yes I think he felt really sad but he prayed for her"
"He prayed for her to come back?"
"I think he prayed that whereever she goes she should be very happy"..it was getting really difficult for me to handle,even we as adults cannot handle this topic,so I was wondering what must be going on in his head.
"Mommy will you also die "
"Yes"
I could see the sadness engulf him
"Will daddy also die" 
"Yes all of us have to die one day ...thats the nature of life"
hmmm ..he was in  deep thought 
I didn't want to  explain  more to him,thought it was better to leave him alone .I think it'll sink in over a period of time 

Friday, February 6, 2009

manus first story -have to add this ,he wrote this story in November 2008


 I went to a cave.There was a lioness she wanted food,I gave her food,next day I went to the cave she was happy and we lived happily ever after ,the end:-)

james bond continues

I was cooking and manu was playing in the living room ,I could hear him jumping ..
Suddenly he got excited and called me "mommy look at me ..see ,come here now..."
I went to the living room and there he was all ready to show me how he could jump from the sofa and before I realised what he was up to he flipped and turned his body and landed with his forehead on the ground ...
Guess what he did not cry...I could see him in pain ,but he wanted to keep a straight face.I told him it was ok to cry if it hurt him ,but he said no mommy I am smart and strong because I drink so much milk ,I don't get hurt and spider man and James bond don't hurt themselves when they fall...
sigh! sometimes what we tell children gets back to us and we cannot say much because we create that world for them ,guess I should stop telling him he'll be strong like spiderman if he drinks milk .

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Miss Nipunni

manu loves his teacher..
mommy miss nipunni really likes me ( he was saying that with a big tongue out and a shy smile) 
you know she called me in front of the class and showed me to all children and said this is how all of you should dress up for tomorrows group picture .He had a gleam in his eyes .His tiny world has so many small little joys ...god bless an let the small joys always brighten his life.

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

James Bond

we wathced the latest Bond movie-Quantum of solace and manu enjoyed the movie ...
he was fascinated with Bond ...
mommy see he can jump from the roof and he dosen`t hurt himself ,and they flew and the parachute opened only in the end ...
he was bewildered.
Scary for me... I had to remind him that it was only a movie and that the actors were just playing a role ,like he played the role of a pig in his school drama ,he is actually not a pig ...
Don`t know how much went into his head .
I made him jump from a high wall and his leg acually hurt when he landed ,so u see james bond also gets hurt like u when he actually jumps ..hope something went in his world of imagination.
he nodded but he did look confused...

Neil Armstrong

Manu was reading a book and all of a sudden he saw Neil armstrongs picture and stopped. Mommy he is Neil na ...the man who reached moon first .
yes:-) i smiled
Mommy was there a race? Was his rocket the fastest ?
all i could do was smile at the cute little observation.(Their world is so simple)

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

accomplishments

he has started reading pretty well and is doing additions,subractions and skip counting ...

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

why is there no one like me ?

manu:-mommy why is there no one in the world who looks just like me ,why are there not too many manus ?
me:-why do u want too many manus ?
manu:- no no i want many smarans ,kazukis,mommys ,daddys...
and dinocos as well( name of his new car)
me:- why?
manu:- so that I can play with as many people and cars that I like

manage my cough

i had a bad cold this morning ,decided not to go office ,manu woke up and saw me sneezing and coughing ...
mommy I can manage my cough ,don't worry about me :-)
lovely kid ,he is so caring 

Friday, January 16, 2009

why is everything round

manu-mommy why is everything round-the sun,the earth,the apple,the orange ,the thing inside the eye (he couldn't remmeber pupil) 
me-interesting one ...what do u think ,why could everything be round 
manu and i are  looking for the answer ...will post it as soon as we find one ;-)

why is the black forest so black ?

we were in bad antogast walking through the black forests when manu asked the question. 
me-hmmmm what do u think why is it so dark here 
manu-because the trees are so close together 

can there be train tracks on the sun ?

manu asked me this question,these days I am putting back the question to him so that he tries to find the answer himself and most of the times i find he knows the right answer -
he answered-i don't think so because they will melt there :-)